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During the year 2006, I made a trip to the Australian capital for an admissions interview for medical school. I assumed to book accommodation upon arrival, but upon reaching the city, a large conference was taking place and all the backpackers hostels and cheap hotels had no vacancies.

Coming from Singapore, I thought perhaps I could spend the night at the terminal – only to discover that airport, not like the one back home, is not open all night. With no idea how to proceed and getting a bit desperate, I boarded a city-bound bus and began walking towards the casino, thinking it was a place to spend those hours somewhere operating all night. This was not ideal in the best shape to succeed at an interview the next day, yet, as a cash-strapped student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.

The world needs more individuals who show such kindness.

Apparently, I appeared out of place because a woman saw me walking aimlessly through the city and wondered if everything was alright. I recounted my predicament and right away she suggested I could crash on the ground of her dormitory at the local university – which was perfect, given that my my interview would take place the next morning. She even offered a meal: one stuffed baguettes she had taken home her work shift. I was able to use warm shower facilities and a protected spot to rest for the evening.

In retrospect, I now understand the significant risk she undertook as a young woman inviting a man she’d just met stay in her room. Back then I existed within my male privilege bubble and was oblivious to the potential danger. Now, as a father, I am astonished she did that – and remain incredibly thankful.

Ultimately, I did not attending the Australian National University, and I lost touch with the student afterwards, yet her memory has stayed with me her selfless deed of human compassion. I hope the universe has repaid her good deed many times over. The world needs more individuals who show such kindness.